♥当狗爱上猫
Process is always more important than the end product...Even though we might not be able to get what we want in the end, at least we had this memorable times together and at least something to thing of whenever we look at something or think of something...
Complications in life are hard to avoid and why can animals just live in a world whereby they can freely do whatever they wan and not care about anything?? Maybe some will say ignorance is why people tend to be carefree and animals tend to be more "innocent" well is that really the case?
Animals have their instinct and follow their heart to whatever they do.. treat them well and they repay in the same manner or even better.. they are willing to sacrifice their life when it comes to emergency... is that what most humans can do? Normally, human will think further ahead when come to this situation,benefits,consequences,damaged and whatever you could think of and its mostly concern our self.. have we ever think in someone Else's shoes and feel what they might feel when we say a certain sentences or even a certain words? We might not be sensitive enough to know what others might think of your action or words but the most we could do is to reflect on our self sometimes... maybe words that came out of your mouth is what you have been doing all this time and your friends,family had always been enduring this type of attitude of yours not wanting to say anything hoping one day you will realised it yourself...
I came to realised that whenever you wants to clung onto something the further it will drift away from you... its like you will never be able to reach it no matter how hard you try and work.. the more you are nearer to it.. the further the thing will go on and the only thing left is the shadow.After you have really reach it.. you came to realised that isn't you anymore, you have change because of the environment and this isn't what you want to become but what others want you to be like... you change just because you think this is how people will like you in the manner you act and the manner you do things...
But things doesn't go this way... Life is full of accidents and coincidental, we never know what will happen next and what would you become in the next few second... you can be like a famous actor in the street but in the next moment.. a beggar in the street.
Don't always put yourself in the first place.. think of others when you are on something even a minor word from your mouth can hurt someone like hell. They never know what is it you want and whats your threshold when it comes to emotion.. they try not to hurt you but in the end they are the one that get hurt, resulting in a wider gap and the fear they have when they get near you.
Is that really what you want? We put in our effort and tries not to do anything that can further strain the bond between us but whenever the first word comes out from the mouth... its like arrows and needles penetrating right through it, not leaving a single space for breathing. This isnt what we all wanted... but this is what we have been doing almost every second...
♥Whisper My Serenade
9:15 AM
Monday, April 5, 2010